Make your child love reading !

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Learning to read opens the door to a fun and creative world — from mystery novels to fantastical fairy tales and even the great French authors.

And yet, every time you show your child a book, the reaction is always the same. It’s either too long, there aren’t enough pictures… until you finally hear the dreaded phrase: “I don’t like reading!

So what can you do when your child just doesn’t enjoy reading? Why are some kids hooked on books from an early age, while others avoid them at all costs?

First, it’s important not to panic — instead, try to understand what might be turning your child off from this world that’s still so new to them…

Why Doesn’t Your Child Want to Open a Book?

When your child starts primary school, books — once filled with mysterious little symbols — suddenly become something they’re expected to start learning to read.

And even though they’re just beginning, they already know: “Reading is important!” Everyone around them — parents, teachers — seems focused on one thing: reading.

Why? Because in France, as in many countries, reading is closely tied to academic success. Books help children learn new things, expand their vocabulary, and better understand the world. And since school involves a lot of reading, enjoying it gives kids a real advantage when facing new challenges.

But your child can feel that pressure around books. What used to be a relaxing, enjoyable moment is now a task: decoding, sounding out, matching letters to sounds. With all that effort, it’s no wonder some kids start to feel overwhelmed.

While some children adapt easily, others gradually begin to associate reading with hard work — even something they’re forced to do. But it’s important to remember that reading isn’t the only way to explore the world! Music and drawing are also powerful tools that help children make sense of what’s around them.

Reading matters, of course — but there’s no need to worry if your child doesn’t seem interested just yet. Not liking books at age six doesn’t mean they won’t fall in love with reading later on — at school, in their teens, or even as adults!

And take a closer look — your child may be reading more than you think. Maybe Maupassant isn’t their thing, but they’re diving into comic books, nonfiction, or manga. There’s no such thing as a “wrong” kind of reading!

Whatever You Do, Don’t Force Them to Read!

It’s essential to understand that you can’t force a child to love reading. As Daniel Pennac wrote in *Like a Novel*:

Helping your child learn to read isn’t about forcing it — it’s about gently introducing them to it.

Your goal is to show them that reading isn’t just about schoolwork — it can also be really fun! And the best part? The world of books is almost limitless.

👉 Most book lovers became passionate readers thanks to what we might call a “breakthrough book.”

Help your child discover a world that speaks to them — something they can truly connect with. You might start with a nonfiction book full of pictures, written in simple present tense. It’s often easier to follow and more visually engaging.

Whatever you do, don’t force it. Invite them to explore a story with you, and if you notice they’re drawn to a particular type of book, let them dive in. No matter what the subject is — what matters is that they reconnect with reading on their own terms.

Introducing Your Child to Reading: Tips & Tricks

BEFORE AGE 6:

AFTER AGE 6:

  • The book should be fun and enjoyable. Give your child as much freedom as possible! They should be able to choose their own books and feel personally connected to what they’re reading.
  • Sign them up for a library card so they can explore new stories and worlds.
  • Lead by example! On weekends, set up a little family book club at home. Everyone reads quietly for 30 minutes, then shares what they’re reading over a chat together.
  • Keep reading stories aloud to your child at bedtime — just because they can read doesn’t mean you should skip this special moment of connection.
  • And finally, don’t insist they finish every book they start. If they skip a part or stop reading because they’re no longer interested, that’s okay. Suggest a different story or simply take a short break.

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